» » Hey helpme007,
» » Guys like
» » yourself and windjc are the opposite of stupid.
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» » TheFittest
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»
» Lol. I’m 36, not 17 or 25.
»
» I opted out of a HT in my twenties and early thirties for all the reasons
» you have mentioned.
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» I may not be “wise”, but the little wisdom I have accrued over my 36 years
» tells me that at some points we have to take risks in life and, in so,
» “risk” regretting our decisions.
»
» Otherwise, we might just have regrets about what we could have done and
» never did.
»
» In the end, I agree with MOST of what you say. But I think that if someone
» is in their mid to late 30’s or older, has responded well to meds, has a
» decent chance of not ending up a NW 6 or 7, has researched a top of the
» line surgeon, is ok with hair that’s not as thick as the toupees worn by
» moviestars, has a good grip of their mental and emotional faculties, and
» DESIRES a HT, then they should get one.
»
» Get one, then take personal responsibility for the result.
»
» And, as for “wisdom”, I have found that the greatest lessons in life are
» learned from our own mistakes, not from those of others, no matter how
» “prepared” we try to make ourselves by seeking our elders advice.
»
» BTW, I hope you continue to enjoy your successful HT and that it stays
» squarely and thickly on your head until the day many decades from now when
» you pass on.
you are absolutley right, sometime we have to take risks to gain something. thats so true. sometimes you have to decide wether you get a HT or not. you cant always wait until you are 35, 40, 45 and so on. Sometimes you just have to do something. If I had followed TheFittest way, I would have waited until I was 35. I wanted to do a HT already at 20. I waited 5 years to really do it, which was too long in my opinion. If i had waited 10 more years until 35 - or I better say if hadnt done it 6 months ago and would now wait the next 10 years, I would always think, “what if I would do it”. and some years later I would think “what if I had done it”. And thats the biggest problem of waiting with a decision. You always think those thoughts. You get crazy, if you dont take a decision. And in this context, the way young people think - “I have to do this or that fast because I dont have that much time” - is NOT irrational. Not to do a HT for 5 years didnt let me develope normally. I developed all these things in my personality in the last 6 months since my HT and I will develope my personaltiy more in the next months and years. It was so important to do it this year, at 25. This was surely too late, but better late than even later or never. The problem with youth is, its the time when you and your destination decide how you live your life for the next 40 years. You cant clear some things or develope your personality and where you get in life at 35 or 40. You do this in your teenager years and your twenties. And if you dont take a decision and do a HT, because you want to get sure until your baldness has developed completley, you will not only regret it, but you will also dont experience many great and happy things. And if you dont experience those, you dont get far in life. So, you must decide. If you dont do it, you will have a less happy - and in my opinion and experience - even a less successfull life. And this not only at 25,26,27 but also in all these 40 years after. Usually at 20-23 life decides how you will be and how will live your adult life. In my life, this didnt happen in this age, it happens now, at 25. And i know that this process is not over and will go on for - i think - the next 2 years.
At the moment is the most important time in my life. Everything which is important to me, will happen now and the near future or it will never happen. Some things you just have to do in your youth and you cant do it later. Everything I learn now and how I change , will stay until i die. And again, if something like things with girls or my grades at university will not be of success now, i will never be successfull in these things.
If hadnt done my ht 6 months ago and had waited until 35 or 40, I couldnt archieve in life what I can archieve now, where i did it. I absolutley believe this. I dont know if this is a fact for every person. But personally for me, these 3 days at dr. mwambas clinic changed my life more than anything ever before and I know that nothing will happen in my future which will change my life this much.
Im 100% happy that I did this HT at 25. It was successfull to 1000%. Whatever happens to my hair in 10-20 years or in 5 years or whatever: it is impossible that it will look pluggy since i went to a good doc. if I lose my natural hair, i still have the option to shave it or I can let a doctor take out the transplanted hairs again or I do another HT or whatever. This is the worst case. I ALWAYS can shave it. I will maybe have some little white dots in my donor and more hair in my front than behind, but im absolutley that it will look ok shaved and noone will think anything about it.
Thats the worst case and its not a problem , so there is no point you can say that this was wrong. I dont say “Do a hair transplant”, but for me it was the perfect decision. Im absolutley sure that its impossible that i will regret it. No way.
