» The solution that has worked for me, or has been working for the past 10
» years or so was wearing a hair system.
I tried that. Mine were held on with clips and double-sided tape.
KEEPING IT ON WAS NOT THE BIG PROBLEM.
Pursuing manly activities with it looking natural and without ruining it is the problem.
Ask the toupe maker if you can wear a hair “system” camping in a tent.
Swimming in the ocean?
Scuba diving?
Water skiing?
Boating/Fishing (salt spray, fish blood and oil when casting bait or when landing a thrashing fish, sails, booms, lines and other rigging, low overhead, etc)?
For hours in bright summer sunlight, espcially on the beach or in the desert?
On a dusty trail ride?
Having a snowball fight with you girlfriend?
While pitching hay or chopping firewood?
While hunting?
Painting your house or painting anything?
While wrestling with your dog?
Wile walking trail in the forest (branches, bird and insect droppings, tree sap, catepillars, low branches, ticks, etc)?
While playing sports?
While fighting or wrestling?
While working on your car/home/whatever (dripping grease, sawdust, dirt, mold insects, etc))
Under a helmet on a hot sweaty day?
I could go on and on and on.
When the wig maker says you can’t without either looking like a dork and also ruining the toupe, you ask . . .
“So when am I supposed to wear it?”
A hairpiece is like wearing a business suit during all your actites–even to bed., and expecting not to damage the suit and to look normal
And like wearing a suit 24/7, wearing a hairpiece 24/7 quickly damages, soils, bleaches, matts, wrinkles (that is, curls it in funny ways), rendering it phony looking util you rush home to clean it and style it (each such cleaning/styling further damages it) or risk looking like a dork.
In short order, you will quickly look like a dork and destroy the thing–unless you live the life of a climate controlled couch potato.
I destroyed my first hairpiece the first weekend I wore it–and I was taking it easy, too. It turned into a bleached, tangled, matted mess with hairs fallig out of it.