I really don’t know what to do guys. I’m 24 years old, 25 in October. I have met a really nice girl that lives a bit far away from me, namely in another country. We have been talking to each other over chat, phone and everything, and now yesterday we used webcam for the first time. I have buzzed my hair to 0 basically, and she saw that but did not comment anything, which I expected since she is a really understanding girl. And then as a joke I mentioned: I am nicer with hair right? And she wrote: honestly, you are. She saw some old pictures of me with hair. But she said that she thinks I’m fine now too etc.
But now it seems some other guys are chasing her too, but she told me she wants to wait for me, to first hang out with me and see how it goes.
So I am considering traveling there and meeting her, but I’m so unconfident because of the hair. I told her that I have hair loss and she said “oh ok, that’s nothing”. Really understanding. But I feel she would be mine with certainty if I had hair, now it’s a big bet, and I’m kind of afraid of that.
Okey I don’t know why exactly I wrote this, maybe cause I feel down and have to share my feelings. But what bugs me is the question whether I should go for a hair transplant (I’m basically NW 3 now) or wait for some medications to come up in the next 2 years. What really annoys me is this secrecy of Follica and these other companies. I am almost considering contacting them and telling them my situation. Asking them if based on their results, I should go for a HT now or wait for something better? Since I feel I might miss out on many nice people in life because of this, it destroys my confidence. What do you guys think?