» I just want to point something out to those who say “looks dont do shyt for
» you” “hair dont do shyt for you” “its all in your head”…
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» If Mystery Man here wasn’t the handsome fella he is, there wouldn’t be
» HALF the responses we have here right now. People respond to
» looks…whether we want to believe it or not, it’s a fact of life and our
» nature.
MJ2003;
Ummmmm…
Ugh…
I dunno what to say I mean, obviously looks and image matter a great deal, whoever says they dont is wrong. Ill give you a small example…
Before I got my transplant, I walked into a Mercedes Dealership (before I went bankrupt because of my parter taking out a mortage under my name) to look for my first ever Mercedes.
I was 25/26 at the time and I at the time had a 2003 VW Jetta Turbo, with all the trimmings, 17inch perfomace mags, leather, roof etc… Not bad for a kid out of university and still in debt with no mommy and daddy help mind you…
Obviously I walk in, no one pays me any minds because im young and in a 35000$ car what make them think i can afford a 75000$ car (i was looking at the ML 350). Long buying part made short… I bought the truck with the manager because no one would serve me…
Fast forward to today… right before my transplant I was balding/thinning very much as you all saw… when i would get out of my car (which is now my second ML), people would treat me like its my moms or dads, No matter how i was dressed (even though youd figure that balding mean you are older somewhat lololol).
I get a transplant… and now even in my gym clothes sweating bullets, I get people in competing high end brand or even the same one asking me if I enjoy ownership of my vehicle…
Looks matter… At a younger age… Looks greatly matter, positive and striong mindset GREATLY MATTER. I exude a confidence now that i didnt have 2 years ago but did have 6 years ago.
I know this story isnt 100% clear but if youd live in my before and after shoes youd understand…
Its not just the looks, its the feeling you have for yourself… that x factor if you will.
The way you carry yourself… Because I can tell you this…
I am a highly educated man… a sales ANIMAL, i am told a fantastic producer, a honorable businessman and a man of respect, but what I feel like today… the way that i present myself, ISNT IN THE SAME UNIVERSE as to where i was mentally and physically before my transplant.
But none of that matters as much as the way you carry yourself and respect yourself… and for me… my inner strength comes from my outside… insult me (which Hangin will do inevitably) but we are all differernt. And in my youth, without millions (yet), thats whereI harness my strength.
When I get older, my looks wont be as important to me, because my strength and confidence will come from other places… Life experience, busienss experience, relationship expereicne, and the things taht are really important that make change… thats later, this is now…
Yes looks are important… but its so much more…
Cheers
MoM