just a question because the forum is so quiet latley. and im interested in it. do you hide it or did you anytime in past?
because i did. ya better said i always did. now im trying not to do that anymore since i discovered that since i dont try to hide it anymore i care more about my future. i dont know why that is, its a personal thing and it wont be possible to duplicate that but i just wanted to say it.
i still try to make it look good with a hair style which lets it look good and i got enough hair to do it. sometimes i even wear a hat. but the important point is, i dont always hide it anymore.
in past i tried to create an illusion of me as if i had still a full head of hair. stupid. because i think noone really cares. as long as you got still much of hair its anyway ok. i got diffuse thinning and i think you can make look diffuse thinning still look good (and not hide it completley).
i mean hiding something which you dont like on yourself is maybe not that bad. but if you line up everything in your life to it so that everything in your life is related to it and you try in every minute of your life to hide it with whatever effort it takes, thats not a good thing. and i did that!
i always was so scared that people would see me as balding. i always thought they would think im pityful and wouldnt respect me anymore. but that all wrong, they dont even care. or they dont even see it as i still have much hair.
i think every guy of you would see that i got hairloss but not the most people. they dont know about it so they dont see it. whatever, it doesnt matter, even if i was bald and would act normal, people would treat me nicely and would have respect in front of me. and i think thats what all is about. at least for me.
its even important that women have respect of you because that makes a big bonus point. and i dont think they got less respect of you if you have thin or no hair. only some people who got problems theirself see baldness as something bad or dont have respect of you because of it. but people like that you should avoid anyway.
i dont deny it. i got many mental problems myself and that was why i hided it. i think im on a good way though. its getting better and i dont hide my balding anymore so that s a good start.
thx for reading and if you think that my post was unneccary or doesnt match into this forum then please shut up! all others are welcome to post their thoughts.