» » » I told everybody. What is the big deal? If they stated why I told
» them
» » it
» » » was for me and not for anybody else. I also said that I have hated
» » » baldness since I was six years old-Which is true. My father was bald
» » and I
» » » always hated that look. Most people were understanding but not all.
» » » That’s life. Do if for yourself and screw everyone else. But make
» sure
» » you
» » » choose the right DR. Otherwise you will regret it. The only Dr. For
» me
» » » that has helped is
» » » DR. Woods. The others only took money and scarred me. BE CAREFUL!
» »
» » What were their reactions? Were they supportive or did they pass
» judgment
» » and call you names?----------------
»
»
» Some were total assholes but most understood that losing hair at 19 is/was
» devastating. I used to tell the ones that were jerks: “When it happens to
» you we shall talk but you are not me and I am not you.” Most of these
» idiots had good hair of course. I suppose I had to develop the FU attitude.
» Not follicular units.-HA HA! It taught me in life now that I must do what
» is right for me and to hell with everyone else. Perhaps is sounds harsh
» but people can be harsh. What is surprising is that most strangers & co
» workers were more supportive than my family members & some friends-Go
» figure.
I agree that we should do this for ourselves and to hell with everyone else but the reality is that even with that attitude it still does hurt when people poke fun at us about our hair. If I can choose, I would definitely not tell anyone about the procedure, like you said, we are doing this for ourselves, it’s nobody’s business. The only problem is that friends and family will for sure ask about the holes in the head, they are just too obvious, no way to hide.